restingstitchface: (Erudite)
Jonathan Crane ([personal profile] restingstitchface) wrote in [community profile] abraxasnet2023-04-09 03:57 am

@everyone

Aurelius once wrote, "If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."

My fundamental concern about this wisdom is that it fails to spot the physical root of trauma. People who cannot snap out of their distress also deserve compassion and treatment.

My apologies for the intrusion. Locals informed me about the recent chaos and I found myself concerned and a little hesitant about reaching out. Back home I treat those who approach me for support with their mental health. I had excellent resources there but here I can offer nothing but a listening ear.

I understand some of you might be feeling exposed, stressed and intimidated. To you I offer my own wisdom. If you worry about what lies ahead, you will be the only one who suffers in the end.

To all else, kind regards for listening.

Oh. Reading, isn’t it? This system is entirely new to me. What a brave new world this place is.
beautifullies: ("yoυ ѕтιll love нιм?")

completely lost track of time/tags, so sorry

[personal profile] beautifullies 2023-04-27 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
𝑃𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑑𝑜𝑛'𝑡 𝑎𝑝𝑜𝑙𝑜𝑔𝑖𝑧𝑒. 𝐼'𝑣𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑠𝑒𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑑 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑓𝑎𝑚𝑖𝑙𝑦 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝐼'𝑚 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑔𝑒𝑡 𝑏𝑎𝑐𝑘 𝑡𝑜. 𝐼𝑓 𝑎 𝑑𝑜𝑜𝑟 𝑜𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑑 𝑏𝑎𝑐𝑘 𝑡𝑜 ℎ𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑟𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑛𝑜𝑤, 𝐼 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑤𝑎𝑙𝑘 𝑡ℎ𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ 𝑖𝑡. 𝐇𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐲.

[ She's made friends here, certainly, and while she's here she'll continue to live and give this an honest go. But she aches for Jamie, and she's let herself be miserable in the hours the farmhouse is quiet and everyone else is asleep. ]
beautifullies: (ѕo oвvιoυѕ ιn pυвlιc.)

[personal profile] beautifullies 2023-05-01 01:38 pm (UTC)(link)
𝑖𝑓 𝑜𝑛𝑙𝑦 𝑖𝑡 𝑤𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑠𝑜 𝑠𝑖𝑚𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑎𝑠 𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑢𝑠 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑤𝑎𝑦 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑣𝑒.

[ It's more of a wistful statement than anything on a depressing note. ]

𝐼 ℎ𝑜𝑝𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡, 𝑜𝑑𝑑𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑒𝑠 𝑎𝑠𝑖𝑑𝑒, 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑓𝑖𝑛𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑠𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑖𝑛 𝑎𝑠 𝑤𝑒𝑙𝑙 𝑎𝑠 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑏𝑒 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑒𝑑.