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Jonathan Crane ([personal profile] restingstitchface) wrote in [community profile] abraxasnet2023-04-09 03:57 am

@everyone

Aurelius once wrote, "If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."

My fundamental concern about this wisdom is that it fails to spot the physical root of trauma. People who cannot snap out of their distress also deserve compassion and treatment.

My apologies for the intrusion. Locals informed me about the recent chaos and I found myself concerned and a little hesitant about reaching out. Back home I treat those who approach me for support with their mental health. I had excellent resources there but here I can offer nothing but a listening ear.

I understand some of you might be feeling exposed, stressed and intimidated. To you I offer my own wisdom. If you worry about what lies ahead, you will be the only one who suffers in the end.

To all else, kind regards for listening.

Oh. Reading, isn’t it? This system is entirely new to me. What a brave new world this place is.
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-09 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
Can't imagine. One degree was more than enough for me.
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-09 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
Psychology, actually. I'm a profiler with the FBI, if that's a thing in your world.

[Seems like it might be, since everything else they've been talking about seems to be lining up, but probably still best not to assume.]
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-09 05:03 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, from DC. You?
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-09 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
[That sounds familiar, but it takes him a brief moment before he remembers why.]

There's someone else here from the same place, I think.
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-09 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Is it a big city? Or just a really busy one?
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-09 06:45 pm (UTC)(link)
You're telling me; I was just in Philadelphia for a case and you couldn't talk to anyone without finding out they were secretly a murderer themselves.

[He's being a little unfair, but only a little. But bringing up crime is a pretty specific way to go if there isn't a particular reason for it, so--]

Do you work with criminals? Or in trauma counseling?
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-09 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
That's quite the job. How'd you end up interested in that field?
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-10 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
Makes sense. There's so many hows and whys to get into that I can see how it might be hard to stop.
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-10 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
Important to both our careers too. At least if you want to enjoy what you're doing.
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-11 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, of course, though we're also pretty fortunate that way. A lot of people get stuck doing something they don't like.
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-13 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
Or paperwork.

[Also joking, but also totally serious. Would he rather sweep or fill out reports? He thinks he might actually choose the former.]
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[personal profile] takeatrip 2023-04-13 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I have a coworker like that. I don't get it at all, but he loves filling out reports; I think it's his favorite part of a case.

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