divasmio: (2 confusion)
Phoebus Apollo (Lester Papadopoulos) ([personal profile] divasmio) wrote in [community profile] abraxasnet2024-08-09 11:49 pm

TO: Everyone EXCEPT Will Solace

I've had the privilege of being pulled into this world alongside one of my children, and I'm determined to be the best father I can be to him now that I finally have the opportunity.

I'm starting to realize that I don't know what that looks like. Back home, I'd been able to periodically circumvent the... barriers keeping us apart through gifts and periodic visits, but I'm at a loss when it comes to being a father day-to-day.

Can anyone offer any general advice?
inferiority_complex: (blue sweatshirt)

[personal profile] inferiority_complex 2024-08-10 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Why are you trying to step in and lighten his load? Is he not doing a good job, do you not trust him? Or are you just trying to do things together?

He might not need you. But that doesn't mean he doesn't want you.

Tell him that. Just be honest with him. Both of you might not know what you're doing.

That doesn't mean you can't figure it out together.
Edited 2024-08-10 23:43 (UTC)