TO: Everyone EXCEPT Will Solace

[divasmio]

I've had the privilege of being pulled into this world alongside one of my children, and I'm determined to be the best father I can be to him now that I finally have the opportunity.

I'm starting to realize that I don't know what that looks like. Back home, I'd been able to periodically circumvent the... barriers keeping us apart through gifts and periodic visits, but I'm at a loss when it comes to being a father day-to-day.

Can anyone offer any general advice?

Comments

[divasmio]

A young man approaching the cusp of adulthood, yet more capable and self-sufficient than many twice his age.

[ It's not lost on him that it was his own neglect that forced Will to become so capable. His stomach twists at the thought. ]

[judgmentbolts]

Grew up fast, did he? If that's the case, he's not likely to rely on you as much as you might like him to... Best you can do is let him know that you're there for him whenever he's got need of you, and be sure that you prove it to him when he does.

Aside from that, just talk to him. Be sure that he wants the same sort of thing that you do, and try not to put all of your expectations -- or your guilt -- on his shoulders. Take it at his pace.

...What exactly kept you apart in the first place, if you don't mind my asking?