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[dirtytrenchcoat]

I've seen and heard a lot about Horizons and how most view them as a personal domain. A meaningful place in most respects, something that feels like home.

In theory, I can understand it, and how it bends to the whim of the mind and memory. The problem is that I'm not sure how to put that into practice.

What if your comfort is in people, not places? How do you quantify that and use it to craft your sanctum?

Comments

[lackingtalent]

𝐻𝑒𝓁𝓁𝑜 𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒.

𝐼𝓃 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇 𝒸𝒶𝓈𝑒, 𝓅𝑒𝓇𝒽𝒶𝓅𝓈 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽𝓉𝓈 𝑜𝒻 𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓈𝑒 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝒷𝓇𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒸𝑜𝓂𝒻𝑜𝓇𝓉 𝒸𝒶𝓃 𝒷𝑒 𝑒𝓋𝑜𝓀𝑒𝒹 𝒷𝓎 𝒶 𝓁𝑜𝒸𝒶𝓁𝑒 𝒾𝓃 𝓌𝒽𝒾𝒸𝒽 𝒶𝓃 𝒾𝓂𝓅𝑜𝓇𝓉𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓃𝓉 𝒽𝒶𝓅𝓅𝑒𝓃𝑒𝒹. 𝐼𝓉 𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓃𝒹𝓈 𝓉𝑜 𝓈𝑒𝓃𝓈𝑒 𝓉𝑜 𝓉𝓇𝓎 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝑒𝓋𝑜𝓀𝑒 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓂𝑒𝓂𝑜𝓇𝓎 𝑜𝒻 𝓈𝑜𝓂𝑒𝓌𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓇𝑒𝓂𝒾𝓃𝒹𝓈 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝑜𝒻 𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓂.

𝒴𝑒𝓉 𝒾𝒻 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓃𝑜 𝓈𝓊𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓈𝓈 𝒾𝓃 𝓈𝓊𝒸𝒽, 𝓅𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓈𝑒 𝓇𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓂𝒷𝑒𝓇 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓉𝑜 𝓂𝑜𝓈𝓉 𝓅𝑒𝑜𝓅𝓁𝑒, 𝓉𝒽𝑒𝒾𝓇 𝐻𝑜𝓇𝒾𝓏𝑜𝓃 𝒾𝓃𝒹𝑒𝑒𝒹 𝒾𝓈 𝒶𝓈 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝒸𝓇𝒾𝒷𝑒. 𝒴𝑒𝓉 𝐼 𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝓀 𝒾𝓉 𝒾𝓂𝓅𝑜𝓇𝓉𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝓉𝑜 𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝒶𝓈 𝑜𝓊𝓇 𝓂𝒾𝓃𝒹𝓈𝑒𝓉 𝓈𝒽𝒾𝒻𝓉𝓈 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒸𝒽𝒶𝓃𝑔𝑒𝓈, 𝓈𝑜 𝓉𝑜𝑜 𝒹𝑜 𝑜𝓊𝓇 𝒹𝑜𝓂𝒶𝒾𝓃𝓈. 𝒴𝑜𝓊 𝓂𝒶𝓀𝑒 𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃 𝑜𝒻 𝓂𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝓂𝑒𝓂𝑜𝓇𝓎, 𝓎𝑒𝓉 𝒾𝓃 𝓂𝓎 𝑒𝓍𝓅𝑒𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓃𝒸𝑒, 𝑜𝓊𝓇 𝑒𝓂𝑜𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃𝒶𝓁 𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓉𝑒 𝒾𝓈 𝒿𝓊𝓈𝓉 𝒶𝓈 𝓂𝓊𝒸𝒽 𝑜𝒻 𝒶 𝒸𝑜𝓃𝓉𝓇𝒾𝒷𝓊𝓉𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒻𝒶𝒸𝓉𝑜𝓇.

𝐹𝒾𝓃𝒶𝓁𝓁𝓎, 𝒶 𝐻𝑜𝓇𝒾𝓏𝑜𝓃, 𝒻𝓇𝑜𝓂 𝓌𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝐼 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝑒𝓍𝓅𝑒𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓃𝒸𝑒𝒹 𝒾𝓃 𝓂𝓎 𝓉𝓇𝒶𝓋𝑒𝓁𝓈, 𝒾𝓈 𝓃𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝓆𝓊𝒾𝓉𝑒 𝒶 𝒻𝒾𝓃𝒾𝓈𝒽𝑒𝒹 𝓌𝑜𝓇𝓀. 𝐼𝒻 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓈 𝒽𝒶𝓈 𝓃𝑜 𝒻𝑜𝓇𝓂 𝓎𝑒𝓉, 𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝒾𝓈 𝓁𝒾𝓉𝓉𝓁𝑒 𝓇𝑒𝒶𝓈𝑜𝓃 𝓉𝑜 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝓅𝒶𝒾𝓇.

[dirtytrenchcoat]

Thank you. So far no one has mentioned the connection to the mindset and that information that makes more sense when my own situation is considered.

Places have never been important to me. I've seen them all shift and change over time. People are what matters.

[lackingtalent]

𝐼𝓈 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓈𝑜?

𝑀𝓎 𝑜𝓌𝓃 𝐻𝑜𝓇𝒾𝓏𝑜𝓃, 𝓇𝑒𝑔𝓇𝑒𝓉𝓉𝒶𝒷𝓁𝓎, 𝒾𝓈 𝓈𝑜𝓂𝑒𝓌𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝐼 𝓉𝒶𝓀𝑒 𝓃𝑜 𝓅𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓈𝓊𝓇𝑒 𝒾𝓃 𝓋𝒾𝓈𝒾𝓉𝒾𝓃𝑔... 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝓃𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝒽𝒶𝓈 𝒷𝑒𝑒𝓃. 𝐼 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝒶𝓁𝓈𝑜 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝓃𝑒𝓈𝓈𝑒𝒹 𝒶 𝒹𝑒𝒶𝓇 𝒻𝓇𝒾𝑒𝓃𝒹'𝓈 𝐻𝑜𝓇𝒾𝓏𝑜𝓃 𝓉𝓊𝓇𝓃 𝓃𝒾𝑔𝒽 𝓊𝓃𝒾𝓃𝒽𝒶𝒷𝒾𝓉𝒶𝒷𝓁𝑒. 𝒲𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝒶𝓁𝓁 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝒽𝒶𝓈 𝓉𝓇𝒶𝓃𝓈𝓅𝒾𝓇𝑒𝒹 𝒶𝓈 𝑜𝒻 𝓁𝒶𝓉𝑒, 𝐼 𝓌𝑜𝓊𝓁𝒹 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝒾𝓂𝒶𝑔𝒾𝓃𝑒𝒹 𝓂𝑜𝓇𝑒 𝓅𝑒𝑜𝓅𝓁𝑒𝓈' 𝒹𝑜𝓂𝒶𝒾𝓃𝓈 𝓌𝑜𝓊𝓁𝒹 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓉𝒶𝓀𝑒𝓃 𝓉𝓊𝓇𝓃𝓈 𝒻𝑜𝓇 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝑜𝓇𝓈𝑒...

𝒴𝑒𝓉 𝓉𝑜 𝓂𝑜𝓋𝑒 𝑜𝓃𝓉𝑜 𝒷𝓇𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉𝑒𝓇 𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔𝓈, 𝐼 𝒶𝓂 𝑜𝒻 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓈𝒶𝓂𝑒 𝓂𝒾𝓃𝒹. 𝒜𝓈 𝓁𝑜𝓃𝑔 𝒶𝓈 𝓌𝑒 𝑒𝓍𝒾𝓈𝓉 𝒶𝓁𝑜𝓃𝑔𝓈𝒾𝒹𝑒 𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓈𝑒 𝒹𝑒𝒶𝓇𝑒𝓈𝓉 𝓉𝑜 𝓊𝓈, 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓁𝑜𝒸𝒶𝓁𝑒 𝒽𝒶𝓇𝒹𝓁𝓎 𝓂𝒶𝓉𝓉𝑒𝓇𝓈.

[dirtytrenchcoat]

I'm sorry to hear that your horizon became a place so uncomfortable for you. Maybe the places are of little importance but the people will always matter. Especially when the places change or cease to exist altogether.